3090: Minimalism in the Real World: A Life without Sidebars by Brian Gardner on Intentional Spending
Optimal Finance DailyMarch 30, 2025
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3090: Minimalism in the Real World: A Life without Sidebars by Brian Gardner on Intentional Spending

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Episode 3090:

Brian Gardner challenges the busyness and clutter that dominate modern life, inviting readers to embrace a simpler, more intentional existence. By clearing the physical and mental "sidebars" that distract us, he reveals how life becomes more meaningful, spacious, and aligned with what truly matters.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/life-without-sidebars/

Quotes to ponder:

"A life with no sidebars is about making space for what really matters by getting rid of everything that doesn’t."

"Busyness isn't a badge of honor, it’s a barrier to connection, creativity, and joy."

"Instead of checking off boxes, I want to be present for my life."

Episode references:

Soulful Simplicity (Book): https://www.amazon.com/Soulful-Simplicity-Courtney-Carver/dp/0143130684

Be More with Less: https://bemorewithless.com

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[00:01:22] Where we read articles to you. Today, I'm sharing one from Optimal Living Daily. If you enjoy it, you can follow or subscribe in your favorite podcast app for daily episodes. So with that, here's Justin from Optimal Living Daily as we optimize your life. Minimalism in the real world. A life without sidebars. By Brian Gardner of nosidebar.com

[00:01:51] The idea that a simple life is a happier life is not a new one. But for me as a web designer and a guy who is hesitant to sell all my possessions and going to live in the world's tiniest house somewhere, I have to admit, I wasn't sure this whole minimalism thing was for me. That is, until the day I got rid of my sidebar. I've been designing websites for years. I've seen all the trends come and go. I've done a little bit of everything. But I'll never forget the day several months ago when I thought to myself, you know, what if I just got rid of my sidebar?

[00:02:21] In the web design world, sidebars had become something of a necessity. It's where bloggers and authors would put links to their products and books for sale. It was where people would share ad space. It was where you'd put your subscribe now button. If we got rid of sidebars, wouldn't that be like getting rid of websites? You would think. But here was the catch. Research was showing that more and more people were viewing websites from their phones anyway, which meant thanks to mobile responsive websites, the sidebars we saw as indispensable

[00:02:49] were actually being pushed to the bottom of the page anyway. So when most users visited websites, they didn't even see the sidebar. This got me thinking. What was it that made us think these sidebars were so indispensable? Was there a better way for websites to function? So I started experimenting. At first, I really wasn't sure if it was going to work. But being the creative mind that I am, I had to give it a try. So I designed a theme without a sidebar. When it was all said and done, I was pretty impressed.

[00:03:18] It looked good, if I did say so myself. But here's where the catch came in. Because my aversion to minimalism, or at least the way it is sometimes talked about, is the idea that we would pursue a simple life at the expense of functionality. That was something I just couldn't get behind. In other words, the website couldn't simply look great. It had to work as well. Removing the sidebar My friend Joshua was the perfect test for my new theme for so many reasons. First, he's a blogger at becoming minimalist.

[00:03:48] How much more perfect can you get than that? Second, he's a good friend with a laid-back personality who was brave enough to let me run a risky test on his website. The test was going to be this. If we took away his sidebar, where all the links to his books lived, basically everything that earned him money, would his revenue streams die? Could his minimalist website survive technological minimalism? I wasn't kidding when I said this was risky. But we pulled the trigger on it, and I'm pretty sure I was more nervous than he was. The results of this experiment were shocking.

[00:04:17] I think the new design made the user experience more enjoyable, drew more attention to the content, and ultimately moved a visitor to a reader to a supporter much quicker than with the previous design. Turns out I wasn't the only person who was feeling tired of clunky, cluttered websites. And when you give people a simple look, they're drawn right in. What we learned from our experience with Joshua was twofold. First, the things we think are indispensable in life usually aren't.

[00:04:45] And second, sometimes we get so attached to our old way of doing things, we lose creativity for how we could win moving forward. The only way to stay sharp and innovative is to continually test things we never thought would work and to let go of the status quo. Packing light, a life of minimalism. The best part about this is it isn't just true in web design. It's true in every aspect of our life. Less is more. You don't have to sell everything you own to become a minimalist.

[00:05:13] I live in a nice house in the suburbs of Chicago with my wife and our son. We have a few extra rooms in our house. An office for myself and my wife, who both work from home, and a finished basement for my son and his friends to play. There are bigger houses in the world than mine, and there are smaller ones. That's not the point. The point is there isn't a part of my life minimalism hasn't touched. A few years ago, I read a book called Packing Light by my friend Allison Westerfeld that challenged me to think in new ways about where I was headed with my career.

[00:05:42] She asked the very minimalist question, what would you do with your life if you didn't have to worry about money? What happens when we strip away all the expectations is we find incredible clarity in our lives. When it comes to career, maybe you need to take some time to strip away all the noise and focus on what is important to you. Do you even know what that is? Or have you just been trying to keep up with what is going on around you? Do you feel like you have control over your career progress or like you're just barely keeping up?

[00:06:09] Bringing simplicity to your career and career goals can help you establish laser-like focus. That's what the no sidebar life is all about. And what about your relationships? Do you need to strip away some of the friendships or relationships that are really taking a toll on you and invest deeply in the relationships that bring you joy in life? Or maybe you've never even really thought about what it looks like to be intentional with your friendships. Maybe it feels like life is so busy, the most important relationships in your life are slipping away.

[00:06:37] The no sidebar life can help you get some traction here. Most importantly, think about your internal life, what I call your soul. Do you feel cluttered and stressed all the time? Do you have things you're worried about that keep you awake at night? Maybe stripping away the unnecessary is the way to go. You might have to take a risk to get there. You might have to test something risky like I did with my friend Joshua. But you just never know. Maybe simple is better. Maybe less is more. Maybe it's time to give it a try.

[00:07:11] You just listened to the post titled, Minimalism in the Real World, A Life Without Sidebars by Brian Gardner of nosidebar.com. Thank you to Brian. He mentioned one of my favorite life questions. If you didn't have to work for money anymore, what would you do? I think that's an important question to think about. It helps you figure out what it is that will bring you fulfillment. I love asking and answering these types of questions. That's one for you to think about today. But I'll leave it at that. Hope your week is off to a great start. Have a happy Minimalist Monday.

[00:07:40] Thank you for being here and listening to me and for subscribing to the show. And I'll see you back here tomorrow where your optimal life awaits.