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Episode 3154:
Evan Marc Katz explains why choosing partners on chemistry alone keeps smart, capable people single. He points out that the overwhelming majority of a shared life is spent on ordinary things - work, errands, decorating a house, visiting family, winding down at the end of the day - so a partner who is compatible in those areas matters far more than the one who scores highest on looks and intellect. He is not arguing for settling, but for putting compatibility on the same level as chemistry when deciding who is worth building a relationship with.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/why-chasing-attraction-is-a-losing-strategy-in-love
Quotes to ponder:
"You can't help what you're attracted to. But you can acknowledge that the men you're attracted to aren't always good long-term relationship partners."
"You can acknowledge that attraction can be blinding and allow you to overlook a man's flaws for way too long."
"Just consider the relative importance of a chiseled jawline and a Masters degree vs. the ability to love you unconditionally and the desire to make you happy."
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