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Episode 3212:
Dr. Margaret Rutherford explains five misconceptions that keep couples from seeking therapy, from the fear of handing control to a stranger to worries about cost, time and keeping secrets. She shows how these stories often mask a deeper fear of vulnerability, and why a good therapist offers objectivity and support rather than orders. It is practical marriage advice for couples who want to repair their relationship before a crisis hits.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/how-do-couples-talk-themselves-out-of-therapy-three-common-misconceptions-that-mask-vulnerability/
Quotes to ponder:
"If only it were the norm for couples to come in before things get chaotic and incredibly hurtful."
"What a good therapist does have is objectivity and experience."
"I often also point out to folks that divorces have tremendous cost, both financially and emotionally."
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