1480: The Danger of the Dream Job Delusion by Cal Newport on Entrepreneurship & Career Success
Optimal Work DailyOctober 19, 2024
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1480: The Danger of the Dream Job Delusion by Cal Newport on Entrepreneurship & Career Success

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Episode 1480:

Cal Newport reveals the hidden pitfalls of chasing the "dream job" ideal, arguing that this approach often leads to dissatisfaction and a never-ending pursuit of perfection. Instead, Newport advocates for cultivating mastery and skills, which in turn fosters passion and fulfillment in a career. Listening to this perspective helps reframe the way we think about long-term professional satisfaction.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.calnewport.com/blog/2010/09/10/the-danger-of-the-dream-job-delusion/

Quotes to ponder:

"The key to creating work you love is to abandon the idea that there’s a perfect job waiting for you."

"Skill and mastery, not daydreams, are what provide lasting satisfaction in your career."

"Passion follows from success, not the other way around."

Episode references:

So Good They Can't Ignore You: https://www.amazon.com/Good-They-Cant-Ignore-You/dp/1455509124

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[00:00:28] [SPEAKER_00]: The Danger of the Dream Job Delusion by Cal Newport of calnewport.com

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[00:00:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Earlier this summer, Julie and I attended a dinner at Red Fire Farm, a 110-acre organic farm in rural Gamby, Massachusetts.

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[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Ten years earlier, he walked out of Cornell University with an Ivy League diploma in his hand

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[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Ryan loves what he does and does it well.

[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_00]: The Dream Job Trope

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Ryan has a dream job, which I define to be an occupation built around a hobby or casual side interest that you enjoy.

[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Growing up, Ryan loved to garden, so naturally, he started a farm.

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_00]: The dream job is a powerful trope in the job satisfaction literature.

[00:02:20] [SPEAKER_00]: For example, here's the opening paragraph from a popular career advice guide.

[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Quote,

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_00]: A New York investment banker becomes a small-town college chef.

[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_00]: A college professor becomes a chocolatier.

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_00]: An entrenched corporate exec converts to the ministry.

[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_00]: End quote.

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_00]: These are all dream jobs.

[00:02:38] [SPEAKER_00]: When Tim Ferriss tells his famous story of an attorney who drops everything to open a Brazilian surf shop,

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_00]: that's also a dream job.

[00:02:44] [SPEAKER_00]: As are most of the examples touted in the perennially popular

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[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_00]: You like to cook?

[00:02:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Become a chef.

[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Love chocolate?

[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Open a chocolate shop.

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Like surfing on exotic beaches?

[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Open a surf shop.

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_00]: And so on.

[00:03:00] [SPEAKER_00]: We're entranced by dream jobs.

[00:03:02] [SPEAKER_00]: When we hear stories like the one that opened this post, we feel a rush of aspiration.

[00:03:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Hundreds make a living writing books and blogs about mustering the courage to pursue dream jobs,

[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and millions dedicate their day dreaming to the topic.

[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_00]: In this post, however, I want to argue that this is a problem.

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_00]: The dream job trope isn't the path to job satisfaction, and it's not just harmless, wistful thinking.

[00:03:23] [SPEAKER_00]: It's instead downright dangerous.

[00:03:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what I want, but it might be this.

[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_00]: In a fascinating study published in the Journal of Research and Personality in 1997,

[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_00]: a research team led by Amy Rezneski of the University of Michigan studied the differences between a job, a career, and a calling.

[00:03:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Early in the paper, they describe a surprising finding.

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_00]: The way individuals view work may be a function of personality traits, not just reflections of the work itself.

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_00]: In other words, the reason why some people see their work as a calling might have little to do with the work itself

[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_00]: and a lot to do with how the person approaches the work.

[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Rezneski's team, for example, found that the proportions of people calling their work a calling versus a career versus a job

[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_00]: was about the same whether you looked at hundreds of people spread across dozens of occupations

[00:04:10] [SPEAKER_00]: or focused on a small group that all have the same position at the same company.

[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Around a year ago, inspired by this work, I launched my own informal study.

[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_00]: My goal was to interview people who self-described as loving what they do.

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_00]: As my collection of interviews grew, I was struck by the normalcy of the respondents' jobs,

[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_00]: which included a certified behavioral analyst, an executive assistant, a milkman, a personal trainer,

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_00]: an employee for a healthcare consultancy, an employee for a company that designs online ethics courses,

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_00]: a language instructor, and a computer programmer.

[00:04:42] [SPEAKER_00]: None of these are dream jobs.

[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Instead, their mundane nature reinforces Rezneski's findings.

[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_00]: When it comes to loving what you do, the type of job you have might matter much less than what you do with it.

[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_00]: This is where the dream job trope becomes dangerous.

[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_00]: The more you're bombarded with messages promoting the dream job path to happiness,

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_00]: the more likely you are to ossify your view of the working world into normal boring jobs versus exciting dream jobs.

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Once you've made this division, you're much less likely to start investing the hard, unsexy, long-term work

[00:05:14] [SPEAKER_00]: into your current career needed to grow it into something deeply fulfilling.

[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_00]: You'll instead save this mental energy for your vague daydreams of starting a small-town wine store

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[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Almost everyone who succeeds leverages a valuable skill they built up in a traditional job.

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Assuming you accept this premise, the question remains of how best to nurture this growth of your existing career into something inspiring.

[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know all the answers yet, but if you've been reading study hacks this past year,

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[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_00]: and then cashing in the career capital this generates for things you value.

[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_00]: When you dive deeper into Ryan's story, for example, you discover that he grew up around farms

[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_00]: and went to Cornell to study fruit and vegetable horticulture in their world-class ag school.

[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_00]: His story is less about mustering the courage to follow his dreams and more about the determination required

[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_00]: to systematically gather the difficult skills needed to succeed in a demanding but rewarding field.

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_00]: If these less sexy but ultimately more fulfilling ideas about work satisfaction interest you, stay tuned.

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Once we discard the saccharine tropes of the follow-your-passion camp,

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_00]: we face a lot more exploration to figure out what's really going on.

[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_00]: You just listened to the post titled, The Danger of the Dream Job Delusion by Cal Newport of calnewport.com.

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[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_00]: That's Deep Work, one of six self-improvement books that he's written.

[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_00]: He completed his undergraduate studies at Dartmouth College in 2004

[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and received a PhD from MIT in 2009 in computer science.

[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_00]: He was a postdoctoral associate in the MIT computer science department from 2009 to 2011,

[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and in 2011 he joined Georgetown University as an assistant professor of computer science

[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_00]: and was granted tenure in 2017.

[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_00]: His work focuses on distributed algorithms in challenging networking scenarios.

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, basic stuff.

[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_00]: And again, he has multiple popular books that are worth checking out,

[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_00]: plus his blog which is called Study Hacks.

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_00]: And last, you can check out his relatively new podcast called Deep Questions.

[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_00]: And you can find all of that at CalNewport.com.

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