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Episode 1495:
Margo Aaron draws insights from Aaron Sorkin’s Sports Night to unveil the psychology behind successful launches. By emphasizing the power of emotional connection and urgency, she highlights how understanding human behavior can make the difference between a launch that flops and one that soars.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thatseemsimportant.com/entrepreneurship/secrets-behind-launch-psychology-aaron-sorkin-sports-night/
Quotes to ponder:
"You're only a pioneer in retrospect. In the beginning, you're just weird."
"Most of life is spent around normal people who think you're being weird."
Episode references:
The Paradox of Choice: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/0060005696
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[00:00:55] The Secrets Behind an 8-Figure Launch by Margot Aaron of ThatSeemsImportant.com
[00:01:02] I have no idea what secrets are behind an 8-figure launch.
[00:01:07] But the fact that you assumed I did illustrates a point about human psychology I want to talk about today.
[00:01:12] Our belief that other people know things we don't.
[00:01:15] It's why offering a peek behind the curtain is so darn compelling.
[00:01:19] We want access to that top-secret confidential file that we suspect everyone else but us has,
[00:01:25] that explains all the things about business we're supposed to know, but we don't.
[00:01:29] Because if we just knew the secret, we'd be way more successful in life.
[00:01:33] If I just knew what Holiday knows about marketing, I'd have a New York Times bestseller.
[00:01:38] If I just knew what Ramit knows about product launches, I'd have an 8-figure launch.
[00:01:42] If I just knew what Cynic knows about speaking, I'd have a viral TED Talk.
[00:01:47] You get the gist.
[00:01:48] For those of us pioneering a new way forward in our fields, we're the most susceptible to this
[00:01:53] if-I-just-knew fallacy.
[00:01:55] We want to believe it's just the knowledge we're lacking.
[00:01:58] Much easier to blame lack of knowledge than the real reason your work isn't as impactful as you want to be.
[00:02:03] Fortunately for you, there is one secret to becoming a successful pioneer in your space
[00:02:08] that I am going to share with you today.
[00:02:10] See what I did there?
[00:02:11] And it's hiding in plain sight.
[00:02:12] More specifically, it's in the TV show Sports Night, a mediocre 1990s sitcom about producing a TV show called Sports Night.
[00:02:20] To be honest, it's not that good.
[00:02:22] But in it, you'll find the secret to success for anyone who wants to be a pioneer in their field.
[00:02:27] Admittedly, the tempo of the dialogue is at times annoying,
[00:02:30] and it vacillates incohesively between being a light-hearted sitcom and a serious drama.
[00:02:35] There's even an oddly-placed laugh track that goes off inappropriately during important scenes.
[00:02:39] It also was cancelled after two years on the air due to low ratings and viewership.
[00:02:44] But stay with me, I am going somewhere with this.
[00:02:46] Sports Night was Aaron Sorkin's first-ever TV show.
[00:02:50] That annoying tempo of dialogue?
[00:02:51] That was one of Sorkin's first attempts at the famed Sorkin Sound,
[00:02:55] which The New Yorker calls, quote,
[00:02:57] lightning-quick, repetitive, emotionally supercharged, culturally elusive banter
[00:03:02] that tornadoes into a spiral of stagy one-upsmanship, end quote.
[00:03:06] In fact, nearly every critically acclaimed aspect of Sorkin's work can be found in this show.
[00:03:11] The pace of the conversation, the character types, the moral dilemmas, even the scenes.
[00:03:16] There are plotlines in Sports Night that are almost exactly the same as plotlines in The Newsroom and West Wing.
[00:03:22] Sports Night was the precursor to everything.
[00:03:24] Except it didn't work.
[00:03:26] People didn't like it, executives rejected it, and it was cancelled.
[00:03:30] Which is the secret to everything hiding in plain sight.
[00:03:33] Right. You're only a pioneer in retrospect.
[00:03:35] In the beginning, you're just weird.
[00:03:38] When you watch Sports Night, you can feel Sorkin's colleagues gossiping about why he, quote,
[00:03:43] can't just write normal dialogue, end quote.
[00:03:45] You can feel the disappointment when executives have to tell him that ratings are low.
[00:03:49] You can feel the discomfort of the show itself trying to forge a new kind of TV into the world.
[00:03:54] It's enduring the discomfort between weirdo and pioneer that's the secret,
[00:03:59] not some hidden bastion of information.
[00:04:01] You see this secret everywhere.
[00:04:03] Pioneers leave crumbs behind to help everyone else stay the course.
[00:04:07] Weirdo first, pioneer second.
[00:04:09] Take these weirdos, for example.
[00:04:11] The sensitive woman who couldn't cope with her divorce.
[00:04:14] Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love.
[00:04:17] The guy who kept making nerdy s*** in the garage.
[00:04:20] Apple's Steve Wozniak.
[00:04:21] The shady kid selling candy in the parking lot who got really bad grades at school.
[00:04:26] Gary Vaynerchuk.
[00:04:27] Or the struggling writer disguised as a mediocre cook with a minor drug problem.
[00:04:31] Anthony Bourdain.
[00:04:33] When you take people out of context, all the things that make them great look really weird.
[00:04:38] Most of life is not spent around people who get you or what you're trying to do.
[00:04:42] It's spent around well-meaning people who want you to focus more on the things they understand,
[00:04:47] like being nice to Debbie and Lance at the fundraiser next week,
[00:04:50] or having a job title in an industry they recognize so they can judge silently whether
[00:04:54] or not you're successful without having to pry.
[00:04:57] Most of life is spent around normal people who think you're being weird.
[00:05:00] The pioneers, the successful, the changemakers.
[00:05:03] We only make sense in retrospect, after we achieve mainstream acclaim for the weird things we do.
[00:05:09] Sports Night only makes sense to people today in the context of West Wing or Newsroom or Studio 60.
[00:05:14] And here's the clincher.
[00:05:15] Once you embrace the weird part, you start to discover the secrets all on your own.
[00:05:20] Whether through the new connections you make as a result of your being a weirdo,
[00:05:23] through the opportunities that come up when you put yourself in the arena,
[00:05:26] or through the sheer act of falling flat on your face,
[00:05:29] discovering what doesn't work, and figuring out how you can do it better next time.
[00:05:33] There are no secret bastions of information you need to do this.
[00:05:37] There's nothing other people know that is keeping you from being a pioneer in your field.
[00:05:41] All you need is the wherewithal to endure the discomfort of being you while you create Sports Night.
[00:05:51] You just listened to the post titled,
[00:05:53] The Secrets Behind an Eight-Figure Launch, by Margot Aaron of ThatSeemsImportant.com.
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[00:07:02] You can come by thatseemsimportant.com to read a lot more from her and about her,
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[00:07:09] It's got some great ones on there if you're looking for ideas.
[00:07:12] Margot Aaron is a proud graduate of Emory University, where she got her B.A.,
[00:07:17] Columbia University for her M.A.,
[00:07:19] and Alt-MBA, where she earned the prestigious Walker Award.
[00:07:23] She began her career as a psychological researcher for a prestigious mental health clinic,
[00:07:28] accidentally ended up in marketing,
[00:07:30] and today she's co-host of the internet talk show
[00:07:33] Hillary and Margot Yell at Websites.
[00:07:35] She's a regular contributor to Inc.
[00:07:37] and founder of the most popular internet newsletter you've never heard of.
[00:07:41] Again, you can find her at thatseemsimportant.com.
[00:07:44] And that's going to do it for today.
[00:07:46] I thank you, as always, for being here with me
[00:07:48] and listening all the way through,
[00:07:49] and I'll be back here tomorrow for the Monday show,
[00:07:51] where your optimal life awaits.
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