1680: I'm Going to Tell You About the Most Successful Person I Know by James Altucher
Optimal Work DailyMay 07, 2025
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1680: I'm Going to Tell You About the Most Successful Person I Know by James Altucher

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Episode 1680:

James Altucher recounts the story of “Pat,” an unshakably gracious billionaire whose quiet superpower is simple but rare: saying thank you. By consistently checking in, expressing gratitude, and maintaining relationships, even after major losses, Pat illustrates how emotional intelligence and goodwill can compound into lasting success.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jaltucher.medium.com/i-m-going-to-tell-you-about-the-most-successful-person-i-know-4e4df4fb4fa6

Quotes to ponder:

"Even if my best friends write me sometimes, I don’t return the emails. I don’t know why. I’ve actually lost friends over this and still do."

"A tiny thank you is like putting a little bit of money in a savings account and watching it grow through compound interest."

"Pat says 'thank you' probably ten to twenty times a day to people as he builds his goodwill account."

Episode references:

1-800-Flowers (Jim McCann): https://www.1800flowers.com

Department of Defense contracts: https://www.defense.gov/Resources/Contract-Resources

Trade Like Warren Buffett: https://www.amazon.com/Trade-Like-Warren-Buffett-Altucher/dp/0471655848

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[00:01:00] This is Optimal Work Daily. I'm going to tell you about the most successful person I know. By James Altucher of jamesaltucher.com. Let's call him Pat. That's not his name, but close. I don't want to embarrass him. Although I am 99.99% sure he won't be embarrassed even if I mention him.

[00:01:21] I met him in 1999. He was the number two guy at the largest investment bank in the world. He wanted to invest in my next company. Here's what he ended up doing. He put a million dollars into a company I was starting. He called all his best friends. Henry Kravis, Jim McCann, the CEO of 1-800-Flowers, and a bunch of other well-known investors. He said, invest in this. And they all sent in one million dollars within minutes.

[00:01:46] Henry Kravis wanted to send 5 million, but I was stupid enough to say no. Pat probably helped me raise another 15 million dollars. Then, Pat put another million into another company I was invested in. Then, Pat introduced us to a large private equity firm that put 100 million into a fund we were doing. Then I hired away Pat's top investment banker to work for the fund. I called Pat to say no hard feelings. He replied that it was basically unfair of me, but he understood.

[00:02:15] Everything went bad after that. The fund we were doing went down the drain. Maybe we invested 30 million of the fund, but it did horribly. The company all of Pat's friends invested in went down the drain too. We lost everything. They all lost all of their money. Altogether, the company raised 120 million dollars and was sold, a few years ago, for 10 million. The other company disappeared. I don't even know what happened to it. I personally lost a ton of money in it, but so did everyone else I know who put money in.

[00:02:45] So that was how I returned all of Pat's help. Thanks, Pat. Years passed. Eventually, Pat left the bank and started his own hedge fund. He took his new number two guy, and that was the guy that did all the investing. But Pat was good at picking up the phone and calling his friends and getting them to invest. He raised three billion dollars for his fund. Because of his new number two guy, the fund made billions of dollars every year. Huge success. One time, I wrote a book. I think this was 2005.

[00:03:15] I wrote a book about Warren Buffett called Trade Like Warren Buffett. It was an okay book, but has nothing to do with what I write about now. I hadn't seen Pat in five years. If Pat remembered me at all, and there was no reason to remember me, it could only be as the loser that cost him and his friends millions of dollars and stole his best employee. But for the heck of it, I signed a copy of the book and had it messengered over to his office. A few minutes after the messenger left my office with the book, the phone rang. It was Pat. James, he said.

[00:03:45] Thank you so much for this book and for the nice thing you wrote in it to me. Hey, Pat, I said. But I had no idea what else to say. Should I say thanks or should I say sorry? Or should I say how is life? I didn't even really know him that well, and a lot of things had happened in the prior five years. I hope you like the book, I said. I can't wait to read it, he said. I'll read it tonight. Since the book was about Warren Buffett, he told me a story about Buffett. He told me he, Pat, was having dinner with the Queen of England, among others.

[00:04:13] WorldCom had just gone bankrupt in 2002. He got up from the dinner to make some calls because he was trying to buy WorldCom's debt at a very cheap price. Everyone thought the debt was worth zero dollars, he said, but nobody realized that the Department of Defense was WorldCom's biggest client. There was no chance they were going to default on their debt. So I was trying to buy their debt for one-tenth of what they were worth. I could make a thousand percent on my money. Only one other person was trying to buy the debt that night, Warren Buffett.

[00:04:42] But we had Rudy Giuliani working the phones for us, and we ended up beating Buffett out on his bid, and we bought the debt. I raced cars with Rudy Giuliani. We made ten times our money on that one investment, maybe two billion dollars. But Warren Buffett is a tough guy to compete with. I didn't know what to say. That's great, I said. In any case, James, I really appreciate this book. Thank you for sending it. I hope everything is going well with you. Call me anytime.

[00:05:08] It struck me that he had a key ingredient to success that I simply did not have and still have trouble doing. He picked up the phone and called me and said hello. He did the check-in. I had lost him millions. I had stolen his best employees. He meets thousands of people a year, so had no reason to keep in touch with a loser like me. He called me instantly to say thank you. It cost him maybe two minutes of his time. That was Pat's personal theme for success.

[00:05:37] I am really bad at it. Even if my best friends write me, sometimes I don't return the emails. I don't know why. I've actually lost friends over this and still do. At least one a month. I don't know why I do this. Something is wrong with me. A tiny thank you is like putting a little bit of money in a savings account and watching it grow through compound interest. Eventually, over the course of a thousand little thank yous, you have an enormous amount of goodwill in your account, waiting for you to withdraw success out of it. That's why Pat now is probably worth billions.

[00:06:07] Another reason? About a week after that call, I wrote Pat again. He did say, after all, I could write him anytime. I described my new fund and asked if he wanted to invest. Pat says thank you probably 10 to 20 times a day to people as he builds his goodwill account. But there's also another key to success, learning from mistakes. He wrote me back. No. You just listened to the post titled, I am going to tell you about the most successful

[00:06:37] person I know by James Altucher of jamesaltucher.com. And thank you to James for letting us share his work and a little bit about him. He's an entrepreneur, writer, investor, trader, and podcaster. And you can call him a jack of all trades, which I guess many entrepreneurs are. Maybe you can relate to that. And on his podcast, he does interviews with a bunch of talented people from many different backgrounds. And that podcast is called The James Altucher Show, which is always in the top charts of

[00:07:05] the business category of Apple Podcasts for good reason. He's also written a bunch of books, and you can find all of those at jamesaltucher.com. Some additional fun facts that you might not know about him. He is a national chess master, a seed investor in Buddy Media, which later sold to salesforce.com for $745 million. And if that's not enough, he's also co-owner of Stand Up New York, where he occasionally performs stand-up comedy.

[00:07:31] So again, very wide range of skills and life experience, and a lot of great stories to tell. You can come by jamesaltucher.com for a lot more. But that should do it for today. Hope you're having a great week so far. I thank you, of course, for being a subscriber to the show and for sharing it with others when you get a chance. And I will see you right back here tomorrow, where your optimal life awaits.