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Episode 2774:
Joshua Becker explores why money remains a significant source of stress despite being an amoral tool for trade. He identifies two primary causes: the constant desire for more money, which can lead to endless dissatisfaction, and the habit of spending beyond one’s means, driven by consumerism. Demystifying these root causes and developing a sense of "enough" can help alleviate financial anxiety and promote peace of mind.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/money-stress/
Quotes to ponder:
"Money, by its nature, retains no moral or immoral attributes. It only makes trading goods more convenient."
"Those who love money can never be satisfied. They will never own enough."
"A simplified life is not possible if money possesses you."
Episode references:
EconoMe Conference: https://economeconference.com
The Journey to Enough by Rose Lounsbury: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZMi46kQww8
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[00:00:57] Das ist Optimal Health Daily. Demystifying financial-related stress. By Joshua Becker of BecomingMinimalist.com. Und ich bin Dr. Neil Malik.
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[00:01:24] So, mit demystifying financial-related stress. By Joshua Becker of BecomingMinimalist.com.
[00:01:43] Money is, by definition, a tool to expedite trade. At some point in human history, someone decided it was easier to carry metal coins to the market than bartering chickens for textiles.
[00:01:55] Money was born and agreed upon as an acceptable unit of trade.
[00:02:00] By its nature, it retains no moral or immoral attributes. It only makes trading goods more convenient.
[00:02:07] If I had enough currency to provide for my basic needs, it should not be a source of pain or anxiety in life.
[00:02:14] Unfortunately, this is not typically the case. According to a recent study, nearly three out of four adults reported feeling stressed about money,
[00:02:23] at least some of the time. Despite living in one of the wealthiest nations in the history of the world,
[00:02:30] money continues to be the top source of stress in Americans' lives.
[00:02:34] This juxtaposition is fascinating to me, and I think it's important to understand why that's the case.
[00:02:41] At the outset, I should mention money is a complicated conversation.
[00:02:45] There are very few specific realities that can be blindly offered, especially to such a vast and varied community as this one.
[00:02:54] We vary in many ways.
[00:02:57] Financial standing.
[00:02:59] Some of us live with excess, some of us in debt.
[00:03:03] Debt, by its nature, brings anxiety and worry into our lives,
[00:03:07] and overcoming stress completely can be difficult until we get out from under it.
[00:03:12] Income.
[00:03:14] Some earn a living well above our needs,
[00:03:17] some specifically allocate each penny for budgets to align,
[00:03:21] and others fall further and further behind.
[00:03:25] Socioeconomic background.
[00:03:27] Some of us grew up with plenty, others with very little.
[00:03:31] These backgrounds reflect themselves consistently in our expectations.
[00:03:36] James Altucher once famously wrote that he felt poorer with less than $10 million in the bank.
[00:03:42] While most of us would never dream of having that much,
[00:03:46] our backgrounds greatly influence our expectations.
[00:03:50] Cost of living.
[00:03:52] Becoming minimalist readers are scattered all across the globe with various costs of living.
[00:03:57] Some live in areas where the cost of living is high, like New York City,
[00:04:01] while others live in places where money can buy much more.
[00:04:05] World and religious views.
[00:04:07] Our views of the world and humanity greatly influence our understanding of money.
[00:04:12] Sometimes these views offer peace, sometimes they bring guilt and shame,
[00:04:17] while others pile additional stress and anxiety on our lives.
[00:04:22] Committed relationships.
[00:04:24] There is a little shock when people first hear that money is one of the leading factors in divorce rates.
[00:04:30] When two people with differing personalities and backgrounds come together in the same family,
[00:04:35] there's almost always some friction.
[00:04:38] And friction in our most valued relationships naturally results in a level of anxiety.
[00:04:44] Consequences from Decisions.
[00:04:46] Some financial decisions take years and years to overcome.
[00:04:51] One foolish shopping spree from our 20s may still haunt our credit score today.
[00:04:56] Even if we're responsible spenders today,
[00:04:58] we may still feel the ill effects of less wise choices from our younger self.
[00:05:03] Because of these variations,
[00:05:06] specific thoughts about money are almost impossible,
[00:05:09] and sweeping generalities must be personally evaluated before they can be applied.
[00:05:14] But as I consider the evidence,
[00:05:16] I see two main reasons that almost 75% of us experience money-related stress.
[00:05:23] Number one, we wish we had more.
[00:05:25] And number two, we spend as if we already have more.
[00:05:29] We wish we had more.
[00:05:31] There are any number of reasons why people want more money.
[00:05:35] Sometimes those reasons are healthy.
[00:05:38] Sometimes they are unhealthy.
[00:05:40] Certainly, the possession of money is not contrary to a simplified life.
[00:05:44] But a simplified life is not possible if money possesses you.
[00:05:49] Those who love money can never be satisfied.
[00:05:53] They will never own enough.
[00:05:54] They will always desire more.
[00:05:56] And those who desire to be rich carry the weight of that burden every day.
[00:06:02] It will always hold hostage your thoughts, your attitude, and your actions.
[00:06:07] It results in extra stress.
[00:06:09] When the love of money is present, freedom is not.
[00:06:13] We spend as if we already have more.
[00:06:17] Another significant reason for money-related stress
[00:06:20] is the propensity of so many to live beyond their means,
[00:06:24] going into debt by spending more than they earn.
[00:06:28] Sometimes this is a result of poor management or unexpected emergency expenses.
[00:06:33] But most of the time, it's a result of excessive consumerism.
[00:06:37] There aren't necessarily easy answers for overcoming the reasons mentioned.
[00:06:42] But at the very least, demystifying and labeling the reasons for our financial anxiety
[00:06:48] moves us one step closer to overcoming them.
[00:06:55] You just listened to the post titled,
[00:06:57] Demystifying Financial Related Stress,
[00:06:59] by Joshua Becker of BecomingMinimalist.com.
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[00:08:07] This article reminded me of something I've come to understand about money over time.
[00:08:13] It's only as valuable as your clarity on how you're going to use it
[00:08:17] and your comfort level with how much is enough.
[00:08:20] And I think the true value of money is the peace of mind that you can enjoy
[00:08:26] once you foster a level of clarity and comfort.
[00:08:29] This is something that ebbs and flows for me.
[00:08:32] On paper, I appear to be fairly financially secure.
[00:08:37] But that doesn't mean I never have anxiety about money
[00:08:40] or that I feel financially secure.
[00:08:42] Just like anyone else,
[00:08:44] I have insecurities and self-limiting beliefs about my future income.
[00:08:48] There are days that I look at my money
[00:08:50] and it makes me feel like I can handle anything life throws at me.
[00:08:54] And there are other days when I think about all the bad things that could happen
[00:08:58] that would completely wipe me out.
[00:08:59] One thing that I love about the FIRE movement
[00:09:02] is the focus on the issue of enough when it comes to our money.
[00:09:06] If we track our expenses and get really clear
[00:09:09] on what level of spending is comfortable and typical for us,
[00:09:13] we just need to save 25 times those annual expenses
[00:09:17] to reach financial independence.
[00:09:19] Knowing that FI number can bring peace of mind
[00:09:22] because we have a clear number to work towards.
[00:09:24] I think knowing how much is enough
[00:09:27] can help alleviate some of the stress that's caused by wanting more.
[00:09:33] We're told more is better,
[00:09:34] but if you always want more,
[00:09:36] it will never be enough.
[00:09:38] Much like success,
[00:09:40] getting to enough is much more about fostering a state of mind
[00:09:44] than it is about reaching any specific destination.
[00:09:48] And that's another edition of Optimal Finance Daily in the books.
[00:09:52] Have a great rest of your weekend if you're listening in real time,
[00:09:55] and I'll be back tomorrow where your optimal life awaits.




