3029: Survival or Thrival? It’s a Conscious Choice by Dr. Jenny Brockis on Critical Thinking

[00:00:00] This is Optimal Living Daily Episode 3029 Survival or Thrival? It's a Conscious Choice by Dr. Jenny Brockis of Dr. Jenny Brockis.com and I'm Justin Malik your host and narrator We're gonna jump right into it today as we optimize your life

[00:00:21] Survival or Thrival? It's a Conscious Choice by Dr. Jenny Brockis of Dr. Jenny Brockis.com Quote the more literate a nation becomes The better our chances are of moving individuals and society toward a state of optimum health and well-being I call this Thrival Sherry Fitch

[00:00:45] It's one thing to survive but how much better to exist in a state of Thrival, flourishing in spite of and in response to our rapidly changing world Should we seek to achieve Thrival by increasing our resilience, defend off adversity and be more stress resistant?

[00:01:03] Well that can help but on its own resilience isn't enough What's more useful is to add in greater adaptability and resourcefulness What do you consider more effective being mentally tough or having the capacity to draw on your reserves when needed?

[00:01:20] By ensuring they are kept topped up at all times All that energy spent fighting the good fight makes me feel tired just thinking about it The problem is it's become the norm

[00:01:32] We keep spinning our wheels hoping to keep our heads above water as we attempt to cope with our increasing challenge of time pressure and overwhelm It doesn't work If endurance isn't your game and you would rather play to your strengths while elevating your cognition

[00:01:48] It's time to choose to thrive Thrival is based on smarter thinking underpinned by better brain health because a fit and healthy brain That is an optimal shape will boost your mental performance

[00:02:02] Helping you to make consistently good decisions solve problems faster and retain the clarity of thought needed to tackle the day's agenda effectively Think first According to Miriam Webster thinking is the action of using your mind to produce thoughts What is a thought?

[00:02:21] You can't touch or hold one in your hand, but you can hold one in your mind It's an electrochemical event capable of influencing your cells and genes It's your choice of focus that shapes your brain and your thoughts

[00:02:35] Being able to critically challenge your thoughts and ideas allows you to connect to your past experiences While imagining our future enabling you to plan organize and determine your next best step Naturally, there are a few thinking hazards that can trip us up badly

[00:02:52] Which is why building greater self-awareness is so important Conscious choice is your superpower. It determines your response to the experience of your emotions and thoughts and shapes your behavior For example, it's been shown how choosing to practice gratitude for 21 days by writing down three things

[00:03:11] You're grateful for will help you to feel more optimistic for the next six months In his TED Talk Sean Acor author of the happiness advantage Shares the idea that happiness inspires greater productivity, which is why your level of optimism is so important for your future success

[00:03:31] Conversely limiting self-beliefs unconscious bias intense emotion and severe chronic negative stress can blindside us narrowing the bandwidth of our perspective and veer us towards greater negativity bias healthy habits It's not that we don't know it's we don't do

[00:03:52] It was revealed recently that over half of Australians don't brush their teeth twice a day We know it's important. So how does this happen because you probably didn't deliberately choose not to? Often it's because we get caught up in other things too busy to press pause and check

[00:04:11] Have I done those things? I know will help keep me healthy happy and wise Our challenge is how to make our non negotiables happen Starting with conscious choice and placing a high value on achieving them consistently relationships It's a sad reality

[00:04:30] But for some enjoying the material trappings of success so highly prized in our society Can lead to the loss of something far more precious along the way

[00:04:40] The time we remember just how important our relationships are to us is brought into sharp relief when we're sick or in need of support Being hardwired to connect with others we flourish when our interpersonal relationships are strong and happy

[00:04:55] It boosts our well-being our resilience and ability to think well even when working hard insight Focusing hard for too long denies your brain the breathing space needed to uncouple from your focused attention and create greater insight That's why putting in too many hours can limit innovation and creativity

[00:05:17] Taking time out to rest and refresh leads to a greater number of ah-ha's experienced We can achieve more by doing less values If times are tough and life's daily challenges are wearing you down

[00:05:32] Tapping into your core values and beliefs will help keep you in touch with your passion and sense of purpose Every challenge is an opportunity for conscious choice Staying curious to what really matters can provide you with a solution to what you need to stay motivated and moving forward

[00:05:50] environment If you've ever felt sorry for battery ends spare a thought for those condemned to work in those ghastly open-plan cubicles Solace bland and beige at best they do little to engender enthusiasm for our work at worst They reduce productivity in performance Why?

[00:06:11] Because of our physical environment the amount of natural light were exposed to our proximity to a window The color of our surroundings and the amount of space we have to work in affects our mood and ability to think if

[00:06:25] If you're ready for a thrival over survival now is the time to tap into your superpower of conscious choice and take your thinking To the next level that's smarter thinking by design

[00:06:37] You just listen to the post titled survival or thrival is a conscious choice by dr. Jenny Brokis of dr. Jenny Brokis calm They get a dr. Brokis an interesting part in there to ponder she asked What is a thought you can't touch or hold one in your hand?

[00:06:59] We can hold one in your mind. It's an electrochemical event Capable of influencing your cells and genes it is your choice of focus that shapes your brain and your thoughts We've come back to this idea here and there on this podcast

[00:07:15] But it's one that I think is critical to remember and why I don't mind hearing it over and over again Our thoughts truly do shape everything they shape our cells our genes our focus our happiness our days our Everything and most importantly thoughts are within our control

[00:07:35] It's hard to believe but I really don't think it can be argued as she said conscious choice is our superpower And of course meditation is something that helps with this as we talked about yesterday But I'm glad she brought up a different one

[00:07:49] Gratitude there really are different ways we can go about this. It doesn't have to be meditation But it can be and like she said it can even be changed through something more passive our environment I'm a firm believer in that change your environment change your habits

[00:08:07] So some good ideas to explore. Thank you to dr. Jenny Brokis for this one Thank you for being here couldn't do it without you have a great rest of your day And I'll catch you tomorrow where your optimal life awaits