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Episode 3403:
Jesse offers a thoughtful exploration of how buying less can pave the way for greater happiness, financial freedom, and a simpler, more meaningful life. By shifting focus from accumulating possessions to cherishing experiences, we can gain back time, energy, and a deeper sense of fulfillment.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/buyless-2/
Quotes to ponder:
"Instead of chasing more, maybe we should start appreciating what we already have."
"Buying less is not about deprivation. It's about making space for the things that truly matter."
"When we stop filling the void with stuff, we discover what was missing was never something we could buy."
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[00:00:00] It's a Minimalist Monday edition of Optimal Living Daily. How to Buy Less And Create the Best Wardrobe Youve Ever Had by Jesse with BeMoreWithLess.com. I'm your narrator, Justin Malik, reading you articles every day of the year, usually covering minimalism on Mondays. So with that, let's get right to it as we optimize your life.
[00:00:24] How to Buy Less And Create the Best Wardrobe Youve Ever Had by Jesse with BeMoreWithLess.com.
[00:00:33] In the spring of 2008, I studied abroad in Barcelona, Spain. Almost every day, I would stop into Zara on the way home from class. Zara didn't exist in the US back then, and to a broke, fashion-obsessed college student, it was the Holy Grail. They had new stuff every day, and almost every day, I would leave with something in my hand. To be worn out to a bar or discoteca that night and likely only worn a handful of times or never again.
[00:00:59] It was like grabbing a gelato on the way home, eating half, and tossing the rest out. Those purchases provided me with an immediate rush of pleasure at a low price point. No harm done, right? Wrong.
[00:01:12] As we all know, the production and disposal of vast quantities of cheap clothing is terrible for our environment, and for the lives of many of the workers creating it. But it's also terrible for our wardrobes.
[00:01:24] How many times have you looked at your closet full of clothes, but haven't really wanted to wear any of it? How many times has everything felt slightly off? How many times have you felt like you don't own the right clothing?
[00:01:35] How many times has your wardrobe overwhelmed you? I know that I'm not the only one. As a self-described minimalist, and somebody who also loves style, I've spent the past several years experimenting, and have finally figured out how to build a wardrobe.
[00:01:51] I barely purchased anything, but I also now own the best wardrobe of my life. One that makes me feel like myself, and brings me joy every day. Here are the lessons I've learned.
[00:02:03] Change your perspective. The world's perspective of clothing has gone through a major shift in the past decade. As the fast fashion industry has come into existence and boomed, the value that we place on clothing has shifted from cherished item to disposable commodity.
[00:02:18] The first step in creating a great wardrobe is to change your perspective of clothing.
[00:02:24] Instead of thinking it as a product to be purchased and eventually discarded, think of clothing as indisposable, like furniture or artwork.
[00:02:32] Would you buy a piece of artwork that you only sort of liked because it was on sale? No.
[00:02:38] Artwork is something that you must love to invest in.
[00:02:41] It's something that you thoughtfully purchase to serve your lifestyle, that you take care of, and that brings you joy.
[00:02:47] Think of clothing the same way.
[00:02:50] Create seasonal lists.
[00:02:52] A few years ago, I started creating lists for the new pieces that I wanted to add to my wardrobe each season.
[00:02:58] This was a drastic shift away from the mindless online shopping or store shopping of my past.
[00:03:03] Instead of impulsively buying something the moment I saw it because it gave me a rush,
[00:03:07] I only purchase exactly what I know will enhance my existing wardrobe each season.
[00:03:12] I also personally limit myself to a maximum of three new additions each season,
[00:03:17] but that's not necessarily as long as you're mindful of what you want and why.
[00:03:22] Here are the items currently on my summer wish list.
[00:03:25] For June, July, and August,
[00:03:27] wide-leg cropped linen pants,
[00:03:30] a loose white muscle tank,
[00:03:31] and black or tan sandals with a half-inch block heel.
[00:03:35] Note, I typically end up buying nothing or only one of the garments on my list.
[00:03:40] The longer I have to think about them,
[00:03:42] the easier it is for me to decipher if I really actually want or need them.
[00:03:47] Give yourself a budget.
[00:03:49] This may sound like no fun,
[00:03:51] but I've found that giving yourself a budget
[00:03:53] actually increases the pleasure of finding just the right item for you.
[00:03:57] It also prevents you from buying those extra garments that you stumble across and think that you want,
[00:04:01] but that aren't quite right.
[00:04:03] Those garments that you never actually wear.
[00:04:05] My budget is relatively small,
[00:04:08] but because I only purchase a few new items per season,
[00:04:11] it allows me to buy only well-made things that will last for years.
[00:04:16] Find your uniform.
[00:04:18] Figure out which of your clothes you feel your best in
[00:04:21] and focus on only purchasing new items that fall in line with this personal uniform.
[00:04:26] For me, I feel the most myself in wider leg pants,
[00:04:30] boxy tops,
[00:04:31] turtlenecks,
[00:04:32] and sandals or boots with a half-inch to three-quarter inch heel.
[00:04:36] These items will probably shift as I grow and age,
[00:04:38] but it will be a slow and inspiring evolution over time.
[00:04:42] Wearing a version of the same thing every day
[00:04:44] also frees up a whole lot of mental energy
[00:04:47] and allows you to be more present to the world around you.
[00:04:50] Win-win.
[00:04:51] Give what you take.
[00:04:53] When I do add a new item to my wardrobe,
[00:04:56] I donate something that I already have and am not in love with anymore.
[00:05:00] This prevents my wardrobe from expanding in size
[00:05:03] and allows me to only own what I love.
[00:05:06] I don't sell anything because I enjoy the feeling of gifting something
[00:05:09] that I once loved to somebody else to love.
[00:05:13] The joy factor.
[00:05:15] I recently read Marie Kondo's book,
[00:05:17] The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up.
[00:05:19] In it, Marie offers a unique approach to tidying up your home once and for all.
[00:05:23] Her deciding factor to determine whether to keep an item in your life is,
[00:05:28] does it spark joy?
[00:05:29] This idea can also be applied to anything new that you decide to purchase
[00:05:33] or anything that you decide to do in life.
[00:05:36] For me, this simple question eliminates all of the shoulds
[00:05:39] that might be dictating the way that I live my life.
[00:05:41] I should wear that because it'll make me look more professional.
[00:05:45] I should buy that because it's a really great deal.
[00:05:48] I should keep that because my mom gave it to me.
[00:05:52] Life is too precious and short for shoulds.
[00:05:55] Why not love every single thing that you own,
[00:05:58] even if it's only a few outfits that make you feel beautiful and like yourself?
[00:06:01] Who says you need more?
[00:06:03] I hope that these tips will help inspire you to shift your wardrobe
[00:06:07] from a place of consumption to one of joy.
[00:06:10] Life is pretty short.
[00:06:12] Buy less, buy better, and enjoy the little things.
[00:06:20] You just listened to the post titled,
[00:06:22] How to Buy Less and Create the Best Wardrobe You've Ever Had
[00:06:26] by Jesse with bemorewithless.com
[00:06:29] and I'll be right back with my commentary.
[00:06:31] Thank you to Jesse, a guest writer on Courtney Carver's site,
[00:06:34] bemorewithless.
[00:06:36] She's a New York-based fit model and founder and designer
[00:06:40] of a minimalist and sustainably conscious women's wear line.
[00:06:43] You can find a link to that and the original article
[00:06:46] in this episode's description.
[00:06:48] I thought it was an interesting idea to treat clothing
[00:06:51] more like artwork or furniture,
[00:06:54] especially because my favorite shirts to wear
[00:06:57] are solid shirts with no logos.
[00:07:00] Nothing on them, really.
[00:07:01] As long as they're comfortable and fit well,
[00:07:03] which right now my favorites are only something like
[00:07:06] five or eight dollars a piece online.
[00:07:09] So thinking about it as furniture or artwork is funny to me,
[00:07:14] but I understand where she's coming from.
[00:07:16] Thinking about them as disposable items
[00:07:18] is probably bad for both the environment
[00:07:21] and our peace of mind.
[00:07:23] But that is my uniform, basically.
[00:07:25] Jeans and a plain t-shirt.
[00:07:27] That's what makes me happy and comfortable
[00:07:29] and feels most like myself.
[00:07:32] And I don't have to worry
[00:07:33] because that works 95% of the time.
[00:07:36] I spend very little energy on what I'm gonna wear
[00:07:39] and I love that feeling.
[00:07:41] So if you haven't thought about a uniform,
[00:07:43] highly recommend it.
[00:07:45] I'll leave it there for today.
[00:07:46] Thank you for being here with me
[00:07:47] and listening every day
[00:07:49] and I'll be back tomorrow
[00:07:50] where your optimal life awaits.