3433: Strength and the Blender Bottle: A Modern Tale of Intention and Power by Stella Kaufman with Mark Fisher Fitness

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[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Strength and the Blender Bottle, A Modern Tale of Intention and Power by Stella Kaufman with MarkFisherFitness.com.

[00:01:45] [SPEAKER_01]: First, a story.

[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Once upon a time, there was a girl. She was a lucky, lucky girl. She was in good health, had a good job, food to eat, and good friends.

[00:01:57] [SPEAKER_01]: There was even a beautiful tree right outside the window of her apartment in New York City.

[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_01]: She lifted heavy bars and swung around heavy cannonballs at a gym.

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_01]: And as she got stronger at the gym, she found herself wanting to be stronger in the rest of her life.

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_01]: She knew that lifting heavy bars and swinging around heavy stuff should be making her even stronger both in and outside of the gym.

[00:02:20] [SPEAKER_01]: She ate protein and green vegetables.

[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_01]: She drank water.

[00:02:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yet, she felt the strength she was able to muster at the gym wasn't showing itself outside the gym, physically or mentally.

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_01]: It was perplexing.

[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_01]: A conundrum.

[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_01]: A mystery indeed.

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Indeed.

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_01]: One day, after a particularly stressful day at work, she was feeling a bit grumpy.

[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_01]: While she dutifully made her protein shake, she wondered why that protein powder never fully dissolves.

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_01]: She hated that clumpy thing that happens.

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_01]: And after all, we have Google and space travel and Amazon Prime.

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Why can't we find a way to dissolve the protein powder?

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And that's when it happened.

[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_01]: In the middle of her internal first world rant over, embarrassingly, insignificant problems, she had an epiphany.

[00:03:08] [SPEAKER_01]: What if?

[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_01]: What if she shook the blender bottle harder?

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_01]: In reality, she was maybe using only one tenth or even one one hundredth of her blender bottle shaking strength capabilities.

[00:03:21] [SPEAKER_01]: So what if she just added some power?

[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_01]: This was her moment.

[00:03:26] [SPEAKER_01]: She took a deep breath and shook the blender bottle a little harder.

[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_01]: She put just a tad bit of muscle into it.

[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_01]: And as you may have already guessed, the protein powder dissolved.

[00:03:38] [SPEAKER_01]: That can't be, she thought.

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Was she not using even the tiniest bit of strength to shake these protein shakes before?

[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_01]: She didn't have to use a lot of strength at all.

[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_01]: It was just enough of an amount to indicate minimal effort.

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_01]: She drank the shake.

[00:03:53] [SPEAKER_01]: It was so much better without the clumps.

[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Of course, newly energized with this incredible knowledge, she wondered what might happen if she used this strength in other places in her life.

[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_01]: In working out.

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_01]: In walking her dog.

[00:04:06] [SPEAKER_01]: She was going to do it.

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_01]: She was reminded each day when she made her protein shakes and shook the blender bottle.

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_01]: They really are so much better without those powder clumps.

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Armed with a new awareness, she carried on in life with a bit more intention and a little bit more strength.

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_01]: She found herself walking with a bit more energy, springing up the subway stairs, and ironically, bench pressing more at the gym, which is what started her strength journey to begin with.

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Putting intention to power.

[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine what you could do better with a little more power.

[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_01]: And by a little more, I mean the amount of strength it requires to dissolve the powder in a protein shake.

[00:04:45] [SPEAKER_01]: For the sake of argument, we'll assume you have enough strength to make a clump-free protein shake.

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Then the question becomes, if you're working out to get strong at the gym, lifting heavy and swinging around cannonballs, why aren't you stronger at everything outside the gym?

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe, just maybe, it's about accessing the power.

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Looking back at our fairy tale, the girl had the power, but she needed to unlock her intention to tap into her power.

[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_01]: The same muscles, the same stamina, the same mobility is required for so many things.

[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_01]: So, why should the grocery bag seem heavy when you're doing farmer carries at the gym with 20-kilogram kettlebells?

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Keep this in mind.

[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_01]: 1. Your mind and body are connected.

[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Your thoughts and your abilities are magically linked.

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_01]: 2. While strength often creates limits on what you're able to do, your mind can create limits on your strength.

[00:05:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Just like everything else you've probably heard a million times over, your message to yourself holds tremendous power over what you can do.

[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And 2. How we do one thing is how we do everything.

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Practicing putting intention to power will put intention to power outside the gym and vice versa.

[00:06:00] [SPEAKER_01]: We humans tend to follow patterns of behavior, and this is another one of those.

[00:06:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Access your power.

[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Some thoughts on how to train yourself to access your power.

[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_01]: 1. Pay attention to the next time you feel annoyed or frustrated about something.

[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe it's something silly, like getting the protein powder to dissolve.

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Or maybe it's something bigger, like feeling overpowered at your job.

[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Next, close your eyes for one second and remember the time you were going to lift something heavy at the gym.

[00:06:30] [SPEAKER_01]: How you took a deep breath and fueled your strength with intention.

[00:06:34] [SPEAKER_01]: I know this may sound kind of like Pollyanna cheesy mind over matter annoying BS, but it works.

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Have you ever been to a wine tasting where they have you smell different spices and then when you taste the wine, you taste the spices in the wine?

[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Or have you ever had someone tell you about something that's common, but you never noticed it before?

[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_01]: And now, all of a sudden, you notice it everywhere.

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_01]: It's kind of like that.

[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_01]: 3. Revisit whatever was giving you trouble in number 1.

[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_01]: 4. Repeat as new challenges present themselves.

[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And 5. Admire your strength.

[00:07:09] [SPEAKER_01]: 5. You're a bad ass.

[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Ideally, after practicing this, accessing your strength will become automatic.

[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And that's pretty great.

[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_01]: The moral of the story.

[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Power is power.

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Tapping into your intention acts like a boost that makes your strength transferable.

[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Kind of like a flow that is present mentally and physically in all you do.

[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_01]: With a little awareness and a lot of practice, you can call on your power for everything, mentally and physically,

[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_01]: without even thinking about it.

[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_01]: What else in your life might improve if you put intent to power?

[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Would you run faster?

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Walk further?

[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Would you be more confident at work?

[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Would your attitude be better?

[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Would your relationships change?

[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Once you can access that raw power, where can it take you?

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You just listened to the post titled, Strength and the Blender Bottle.

[00:08:05] [SPEAKER_01]: A modern tale of intention and power.

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_01]: By Stella Kaufman.

[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_01]: With markfisherfitness.com.

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[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Dr. Neal here for my commentary.

[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I know today's author Stella tried to convince you about the importance of mind over matter.

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Were you really convinced though?

[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Do me a favor and humor me for a second.

[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_01]: If it's safe to do so right now, close your eyes.

[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_01]: If it's not safe to close your eyes right now, that's fine.

[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to guess this little trick will still work even if your eyes are open.

[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_01]: It's just that closing your eyes tends to make it work even better.

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, your eyes are closed.

[00:09:44] [SPEAKER_01]: All you have to do is listen to my cues.

[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And again, humor me.

[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Here we go.

[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine, there's a bright yellow lemon sitting on a cutting board in front of you.

[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Next to it is a knife.

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_01]: You pick up that bright yellow lemon and hold it close to your nose to make sure it's ready

[00:10:02] [SPEAKER_01]: to slice.

[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_01]: You can immediately smell that strong lemon flavor from the lemon skin.

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_01]: It's ready to cut.

[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_01]: You take the knife and slice the lemon in half.

[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Cutting through the lemon skin and the flesh of the fruit releases even more of that amazing

[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_01]: lemon aroma.

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_01]: It smells so good, you think, nothing that smells that good could taste sour, right?

[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_01]: So you grab a small glass and squeeze half of the lemon you just cut into the glass.

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't add any water or sugar and take a big gulp of it.

[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Yikes, that was way more sour than you thought.

[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, open your eyes.

[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Did anything happen while I was narrating?

[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Did you find that as I talked more about the lemon and you imagined that lemon and imagining

[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_01]: how sour that lemon juice was, did you start producing more saliva?

[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Did the glands under your tongue, what we call salivary glands, start to get activated?

[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_01]: If so, that's very normal.

[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And here's the thing.

[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You didn't actually drink pure lemon juice.

[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_01]: But by just me talking about it, your body responded.

[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Your body believed what your mind was telling it.

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_01]: This works if you sit there and close your eyes or imagine that you're going to get up

[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_01]: and talk in front of a bunch of people, for example.

[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine you standing there on a stage having to talk to hundreds of people.

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You might find your heart rate automatically goes up.

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Your blood pressure goes up.

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That's not actually happening.

[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_01]: But you just thinking about it changed your physiology.

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Your body responded to something your mind imagined.

[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, do you believe in mind over matter now?

[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_01]: All right.

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