4164: [Part 1] Do These 5 Things When Social Anxiety Has Your Tongue by Roxana Alexandru on Self-Compassion
Optimal Living DailySeptember 22, 2026
4164
00:08:55

4164: [Part 1] Do These 5 Things When Social Anxiety Has Your Tongue by Roxana Alexandru on Self-Compassion

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free.

Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home.

Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com

Episode 4164:

Roxana Alexandru recounts fumbling her words while mentoring a college student at work, and the spiral of impostor syndrome and negative self-talk that followed. She explains why the moment hit so hard for an introvert who prides herself on being careful with language, and why she chose to give herself a break instead of replaying it. Self-compassion, she argues, is what keeps a bad moment from becoming a lasting story about yourself.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/do-these-5-things-when-social-anxiety-has-your-tongue/

Quotes to ponder:

"It made me feel small. And I hate feeling small."

"If you ever find yourself at a loss for words, cut yourself some slack."

"Honesty and vulnerability are the most powerful weapons to combat social anxiety."

Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices